I went out a bit early, last night, to check out the lessons that they have at GCS. I have a friend who’s made noises about learning to dance and I wanted to see if this might be a good place for him to take lessons. I certainly can’t teach him. I think this would work.
The guy who instructs is very clear and explains why you are doing what you are doing. He walks you through each section of a dance step, including spins and turns, very carefully and without music. After you do it a few times without music, together, he then puts on some music and takes you through it a couple of times again. He was teaching a step I’m not too horribly keen on – I’d much rather one step to those types of songs for the most part.
I wound up dancing the jitterbug just about every time one got played. I love that dance, and adore Romero for teaching me. It’s just so fun. The last one we danced, I swear I was laughing through the whole thing.
I enjoyed the night so much, actually, that I was out until after 1am just dancing and talking and generally enjoying myself. Of course, I didn’t enjoy the alarm clock being obnoxious a few hours later – but, it was worth it.
Aside from just flat out loving to dance…I’m really coming to like and sincerely appreciate the group of people I get to hang out with and chat with on these nights. I think it’s a little ironic. I go from doing nothing but working and going home and playing my games/knitting/reading…to working and then being out 5 nights a week. When I decide to do something, I dive right in.
It was the same way with smoking (in an opposite sort of way). I decided to stop smoking – I stopped. Just like that, yes. I decided to keep a tight rein on my drinking – I keep a tight rein on my drinking. I finally decided to stop biting my nails – I stopped biting my nails.
I don’t know – it’s kind of like there is some little mental trigger, and when I finally reach a decision…that’s it. There’s no equivocating, no back and forth, no struggle…it’s just how it is. Period.
Of course, changing my mind after I make a decision is like an uphill battle in full plate armor with boiling oil pouring down on your head and bees inside your helm…but, that’s another story.
Edit: My friend Kate commented:
Don’t forget the hot lava flowing down the hill which burns you bit by bit. Until you realize that despite the fact that you started out to change [Kittie's] mind, you’ve now been worn down into a little stump of charred ash that agrees with her.